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Resources

Knowledge is leverage. These laws, studies, and organizations support survivors and protective parents.

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National Domestic Violence Hotline — 1-800-799-7233

24/7, confidential. Text START to 88788. thehotline.org

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline — 1-800-422-4453

Support and crisis intervention for concerns about a child's safety.

WomensLaw.org

Plain-language legal information by state, including custody and protective orders. womenslaw.org

Laws & reforms to know

Keeping Children Safe From Family Violence Act ("Kayden's Law")

Part of VAWA 2022. Encourages states to limit "reunification" practices, require evaluator training in domestic violence and child abuse, and prioritize child safety in custody decisions. Learn more

Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) 2022 Reauthorization

Includes provisions supporting survivors in family court and funding for trauma-informed practices.

The Saunders Study (U.S. DOJ / NIJ)

Research showing many custody evaluators and judges lack adequate knowledge of domestic violence, leading to unsafe outcomes. A key citation when challenging an evaluation.

Organizations & advocacy

National Safe Parents Organization

Coalition of parents and professionals behind Kayden's Law and state reforms. nationalsafeparents.org

DV LEAP (Domestic Violence Legal Empowerment and Appeals Project)

Appellate legal advocacy for survivors and the home of the Meier custody research. dvleap.org

Center for Judicial Excellence

Tracks child safety in family courts and pushes for accountability. centerforjudicialexcellence.org

National Family Violence Law Center (GWU)

Research and advocacy on family courts and abuse. nfvlc.org

Courageous Survivors

Community and storytelling for protective parents. courageoussurvivors.org

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)

Policy, resources, and survivor support. ncadv.org

Research & data

Meier et al. (2019) — alienation & abuse custody outcomes

The largest U.S. empirical study of custody outcomes when abuse is alleged. Read on SSRN

Saunders et al. (2012) — DOJ / NIJ

Federal study on evaluators' beliefs and training gaps in domestic violence. Read the report (PDF)

Plain-language summary

See our Evidence page for an accessible breakdown with sources.

If you're challenging an evaluation

Document everything

Dates, communications, the time the evaluator actually spent with you, and what was left out of the report.

Ask about training

Request the evaluator's qualifications and domestic-violence training on the record.

Seek a DV-informed attorney or advocate

WomensLaw and local DV coalitions can refer you. A trauma-informed expert can rebut a flawed report.

This page is general information, not legal advice. Laws vary by state and change over time. Consult a qualified attorney about your situation.